Assalaamualaikum..
It's monday...hmm..monday blues..
This morning we have had a demo on iptv by the product people. It was a fruitful session, I realized that I am not maximizing the iptv..huhu. But that is not what I am going to talk about in this post.
During the session, as usual, mesti ada borak2. I pun ckplah to one of my colleagues, tak ada masa nk tgk tv except weekend. This lady pun ckp, 'kitorg lg tak ada masa, awak takpelah takde anak. Nk tgk homework la, masak la'. Hello!!!??? Tak tahulah kan maybe I was hungry tadi so, I ter 'emo' sikitlah kan.
Boleh tak jgn ckp mcm tuh? Ada anak pun nak bising (mcm dia sorg la ada anak), karang takde anak mcm saya baru tau. I just could not understand. Jgn lah ingat org yg tak ada anak tu, senang lenang aje ye? Itukan semua dugaan. Ada anak lain responsibility, tak ada anak lain pula.
Kami yang tak ada anak ni, ada responsibility jugak, kena usaha mcm2, buat treatment la, ape la. Ingat senang ke nak buat treatment? You have to spend your time, money, energy, emotion etc. Ingat tak stress ke? Ingat tak ada pengorbanan ke? Ingat terus jadi ke treatment tu? I am not complaining here but just to let others yg x tahu what we have gone thru during treatment. So please...Syukurlah u have your kids easily without going through any treatments and do not just say 'senanglah u takde anak'. Tension tau..
Org yg x go thru treatment takkan tahu apa hsg, iui, ivf, polip, laps, inject sendiri eii mcm2 lagi la. Ko ade? Kalau takde, jgn simply cakap sesuka hati ye.
What I am trying to say here is..bersyukurlah, jgn lah asyik merungut, jgnlah ingat u sahaja yg paling bz. Yes, sometimes mmg kita ada merungut tp cepatlah sedar, there are people out there yg lagi susah, sakit etc. Berdoalah semoga Allah permudahkan urusan kita, itu kan lebih baik :)
Dear Sally, ye..sangat memahami...setuju, kena selalu bersyukur dengan apa sahaja situasi..kadangkala memang terlepas cakap dan merungut/complain tapi kena aware yang kalau kita susah ada orang lain yang lagi susah. Masing-masing ada dugaan dan cabaran tersendiri. I admire orang yang terus berusaha...i doakan untuk u dan hubby supaya apa yang diusahakan berhasil...InsyaAllah. Jangan sedih-sedih ok...*big hug* to you.
ReplyDeleteThanks Zurin..I am touched :)..ye i pun mcm tu, sometimes merungut but that's normal kan as we are human, dlm Quran pun ada mention (x ingt surah apa) yg manusia ni mmg selalu keluh kesah.
DeleteTp jgnlah sampai kita kata kat org lain kan, kita pun x tahu masalah org, maybe luaran nmpk ok je. Anyway, thanks for your doa...may Allah bless u & ur beautiful family :)
Opps...hope it wasn't me...if it was me, i am truly sorry, tapi seingatnya takde...kalau ada org minta maaf banyak2 ye kak..
ReplyDeleteunderstand your feeling...be strong ya..again take it as a test from Allah and the sign that Allah loves you both...ada arrangement yang lebih baik yang Allah dah tentukan untuk akak sekeluarga, insya-Allah...
Be strong, never give up...insya-Allah one day your dream will come true...tetibe org pun nak emo sama...sobsobsob
Oh No! Not you of course..hehe. So far x pernah la awak ckp mcm tu seingat kita. Yelah, maybe kita cepat emo nowadays, sejak kejadian sedih hari tu.
DeleteBut what to do, maybe ada hikmah & hanya Allah shj yg tahu.